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Cancer:
is
Cardinal
Water.
In
the Zodiac, it follows the air sign, Gemini. Gemini is like a
toddler whose attention can be easily distracted, flitting from
thing to thing. Cancer is like a toddler who grabs on to
something, won't let go, and throws a tantrum when mommy or
daddy tries to take it away. And the Cancer mood swings are
legendary.
Let me give you a few tips about dealing with those who have
the sign of Cancer strong in their horoscopes. How do you tell if a
sign is 搒trong?? If the person has the Sun, Moon, or Ascendant
(also called the Rising Sign) there. In this case, you can include
those who have the Moon within six degrees of the Ascendant as well.
Cancer wants what it can't have. As soon as it gets
something, it forgets about it. A friend of mine told me that she used
to go out with a Cancer man. 揌e kept asking me if I loved him, but
I don't like to rush into things? she said. 揥hen I finally
told him I loved him, he left suddenly and I never saw him again!?
The way around disasters like this is to keep the game going.
Keep them guessing forever. A client told me that her Cancer Sun-Sign
boyfriend had canceled several dates recently. 揌e says he had a
hard day at work and he's too tired to come over, and he's doing
it more and more? she complained. I told her what to do. The next
day, she called me to say that it worked. 揟he phone rang at 9 P.M.
and I didn't answer it? she said. 揇id it ring at Exactly
9 P. M.?I asked. 揧es? Good. It was him. 揟hen it rang at
9:30, and I still didn't answer it? Exactly at 9:30? Yes. So
predictable. 揟hen it rang at 10 P.M., I picked it up and said 揌ello?
What did he say? 揌e said 搘here were you??No hello. Just 慦here
were you?挃 He was over there in another half hour and spent the
night. Like I say, Cancer can't stand to loose anything.
Never, ever, give a Cancer a straight compliment. If you tell
them that they look good, they will think that something is wrong, or
that you've trying to set them up for something. You have to tell
them that they are looking 搇ess bad today?and then ask them if
they are trying to break a lifetime trend. Watch them smile.
Cancer men are known for needling the women in their lives
until they blow up. They want to 揼et mommy mad? If you are
involved with one, just be a 搕ough moma?who's trying to help
them get their life in order. Correct them constantly. If they ask you
if you love them, use one of the following lines:
(1)
揑'll
think about it? If they press you for an answer, say 揊or
goodness sake, you know how busy I am. I抦 taking time out of my
busy schedule to think about whether I love you or not. I think that
says something. But some
people are just never satisfied!?/span>
(2)
Say 揙f course I do, uh..uhh...?and pretend that you forgot their
name. Then say 揥ell what's in a name anyway. Whatever your name
is, I love you.?o:p>
(3)
Tell
them flat out that you have 揃etter taste than that?
(4)
If you want to tell them that you love them, shake your head, sigh,
and say 揑 don't know why I put up with you?
On the positive side, (yes, there is a positive side) the
house with the sign of Cancer on the cusp (beginning) shows one of the
places in or lives where we can be loving and nurturing, protecting
the helpless (including animals). On the negative side, it can show
where we can be moody and irrationally greedy. This is the area of our
lives where, if we can't get our way, we tend to retreat into a
fantasy world where things are just the way we want them to be.
The other area of our lives where we can act like this is
shown by the house occupied by the ruler of the sign of Cancer, the
Moon.
Scorpio:
is Fixed
Water.
This is the sign of Extremes,
all or nothing. It follows the air sign Libra, sign of balance. To
understand Scorpio, read the novels of Dostoyevsky, who was a Scorpio
Sun-Sign, and examine the characters closely.
The house that has Scorpio at the
cusp (beginning) is one of the places in your life where you tend to
posses Intensity and Power as well as where you may be driven by compulsive
搒ubconscious forces? The other is the house that Pluto, ruler of
Scorpio, occupies. According to the late Marc Edmund Jones, this is
where we have ?..the greatest potentials for actual good or
evil...?
All of the fixed signs tend to be stubborn and unyielding.
Taurus is that way out of sheer inertia. Like a large boulder, once it
starts moving, it simply can't stop. Leo stands firm out of pride.
Aquarius, an air sign, refuses to budge without a logical reason. With
Scorpio, it is pure emotional intensity, the kind that can rise up
when one is involved in a fight to the death.
Scorpio is also the sign of Secrets.
This sign is the best natural born detective in the zodiac. If you
want to know the dirt about someone, find a Scorpio Sun-Sign person
who knows them. Actually, any strong emphasis on Scorpio will do. But
don't ever expect them to tell you their secrets.
Bobby
Fischer, the chess champion, has Scorpio on the cusp (beginning) of
his 5th House (romance, creativity, sports, and Games).
Pluto, the ruling planet of Scorpio, is in his 1st House (self). He
was totally possessed by his passion for the game. Bill
Gates also has Scorpio on the cusp of his 5th House. But Pluto,
the ruler, is in his 2nd House (money) showing that the creative drive
is channeled more directly into financial areas, and that there is an
obsession to accumulate wealth as well as to create. The motto he
chose for his company is 揗icrosoft Everywhere?
Pisces:
is
Mutuable
Water.
I think of Pisces as the most agreeable sign in the zodiac. People
with a strong Pisces emphasis in their horoscopes seem to agree with
almost anyone. If, a few minutes later, they happen to talk to someone
with the opposite opinion, they will agree with them too. Then, they
go off and something completely different from both. Deep down inside,
Pisces doesn't want to upset people. In fact, if you complain to a
Pisces about trouble you are having with someone they don't even
know, they will start making excuses
for that other person. They feel compassion for someone they never
met.
Let me emphasize
again that this refers only to the influence of this one sign. When
doing a horoscope, you have to take the entire chart into account, and
there are a myriad of other factors to consider besides the Sun-Sign.
Richard Ramirez and John Wayne Gacy, both infamous serial killers were
Pisces Sun-Signs, and they showed little compassion for their victims.
The
House with Pisces on the cusp (beginning) will be one of the places in
your horoscope where you can be your most tolerant and compassionate,
as well as your most imaginative. It can also show where you can be
self-destructive and refuse to deal with reality. The other place to
watch for these things is the house where your planet Neptune is
located.
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